Bonds.

Through out the history of humans we can notice some things that are common like, War,Love,Survival,Connection etc. but I am more interested in the connection part, as far as it comes to this post, from ancient times everyone tried to connect with other people or in some cases with gods, aliens etc. but they were trying to connect with another, and that makes me wonder why?

Why do we seem to give so much importance to the connection with another thing that lives just like us, some people talk to their pets as if they could understand and respond to them, and yet it seems so general and common that people hardly even notice it let alone think about it...... People need some sort of connection with another be it something like going through similar circumstances or thinking in similar way, basically they try to find similarity maybe in them and the other person...... People talk, they share their idea's their dreams, their nightmares, just about everything that is expressible through words if and when that fail or is not enough they paint things to describe it more properly..... but the need for another person to understand what one person is feeling seems inevitable.....  Now I'm pretty sure that people may say what I am doing is similar, why else would I write a blog, but that doesn't concern me cause I'm just as sure that not many read it thoroughly enough to question something like this, and if they do it's just another reminder that I'm writing this blog so I can revisit these thoughts in future if I forget them...... So back to what I was saying, that need never seems to change, be it in old times or be it now...... so I was wondering as to why? Why do people want a opinion from another person about something that they are going through?  I mean it'd make more sense if they themselves thought about it and came up with a answer without asking anyone, or if they are not in a real question why would they search for a answer that wouldn't change anything? 

These type of questions bugged me for a while...... but then I came up with a possible answers...... there is a good chance that people may have made this a habit of connecting with another, or maybe they do it just like they learn to talk, or learn anything for that matter by imitating another...... or maybe they just want to have a third persons view in their life, some one who isn't going through with whatever is happening to them but can relate to it and give them the advice they are seeking..... well these are just a few of any number of possibilities as to why people want to connect with each other.....

Still that is not what I am looking for.... I think to search for a proper answer I'll need to go deeper.... like why was the language invented, why the humans in the past felt the need to go through an extremely elaborate procedure of inventing language something that will help them express what they think,felt or experienced.......